Emotional Healing, can i do it myself?  Yes, you cAN!

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Accept all your personality aspects both light and dark, 'appealing' and not, to begin healing. Embrace WHO you are without self-judgement, ridicule or shame~ and
grow beyond surviving, to Thriving!

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You Can Grow Your Self-Esteem!

Welcome! It's likely you've landed here because you're seeking answers and clarity. Since the inception of this site in 2004, I'm happy to say that it has evolved into a gigantic self-help resource, and my greatest hope is that you'll benefit from discovering it! You'll encounter exceptionally unique, unconventional knowledge here, and gain stellar insights about living and loving that far surpass what you've been exposed to within other venues.

I've always been a seeker of truth, and my writings reveal what I've discovered to be valid about life and love. You'll likely feel some resonance with my articles, while recognizing they're true for you, as well. 

The root cause of human dysfunction is poor self-worth, and you can repair this for yourself. As you browse my articles page, you'll see 'special interest' topics that express my personal views and opinions about various clinical issues like anxiety and addiction, as well as Q&A forums and videos about Codependency and Borderline Personality Disorder, for those of you trying to recover from a painful relationship with someone who has BPD traits.

I hope you'll relate to my materials, and find them easy to ingest and integrate, because intellectual understanding is the precursor to emotional knowing~ and once you know something emotionally, you can't forget it or unknow it. This 'knowing' is retained on a cellular level in your body. It cannot be diluted or diminished by any challenges you might face in life, so self-doubt inevitably mitigates.

My Self-Healing tutorial, "Overcoming Anxiety and Panic" is nothing short of life-altering. We don't want to merely eliminate anxiety symptoms~ we want to get you healthy, because emotionally whole, well-balanced people do not suffer from panic attacks or anxiety episodes!  Take a few minutes and explore the course (below) to see if it might be a solid fit for you. Feel free to phone my landline, 323 936-3637 if you wish to probe this topic further.

ATTENTION!!! For a limited time, you can outgrow and end your anxiety and panic attacks for the discounted price of only $69.96. That's about 2/3's off the regular course cost! This is to help those of you who are struggling amidst these financially trying times. It's a remarkable, affordable chance to learn, grow and heal yourself. It costs you nothing to click on the buttons below, so c'mon and check it out...

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