About Shari Schreiber, M.A.

about shari schreiber

This website is dedicated to your empowerment, expansion and success. I am at heart, an educator~ so a lot of the material you'll be reading on this site is very candid, straightforward and controversial. My hope is, you'll have an "Aha!" experience while you're visiting, and gain some headway with the challenges or struggles you might be facing.

I retired from my 25-year wellness practice in late 2017, but remained committed to helping people learn how to repair themselvesYou will see GettinBetter Courses offered on this site, which are intended to enhance your life and ease your pain. In the interim, I hope you'll view my YouTube videos, which offer life-altering tools and powerful strategies that can help you better navigate your daily existence, and start to genuinely heal.

The perspectives and concepts you'll be exposed to on these web pages are the direct outcome of my life experiences, and are solely my own. These materials are not to be interpreted as being congruent with nor reflective of those maintained by the psychotherapeutic community or any body of individuals that promotes psychological counseling.

I have not worked as a state licensed clinician. In my view, psychotherapy always seemed too lengthy a process, so I conceived and developed radically unique methods that could resolve human pain more quickly and permanently.

While you might acquire worthy insights from my self-help articles, my consulting work has never dealt with mental exploration or analysis of your suffering! I have offered unconventional, comprehensive approaches to reconstructing clients' lives, by teaching them how to heal and grow themselves. My methods have proven to be nothing short of transformationalEach highly specific, yet simplistic tool (many of which are offered in my YouTube videos) is designed to eliminate obstacles that inhibit success, joy and contentment, so you're finally able to construct the kind of life you may have always wanted.

My book, DO YOU LOVE TO BE NEEDED, OR NEED TO BE LOVED? details how I helped my clients heal their long standing emotional pain. You might think of it as a primer on Codependency and the core trauma wounds that drive our unending compulsion to place the needs of others far ahead of our own. This addictive reflex prevents us from forming nourishing, healthy, reciprocal attachment bonds. You can order the softcover version (see the Amazon link on my home page), or download it as an e-book from Kindle.

Background Trivia: I returned to school at forty-one, and earned a Bachelor's degree in Human Behavior Psychology and a Master of Arts in Counseling Psych. I completed a six-year private practice Marriage and Family Therapy internship, and sat for both my state board exams. I chose to surrender my application for MFT licensure after a serious accident and accompanying injuries in 2007 made it impossible to retake my second test. This incident dramatically altered my career course~ but my passion to help people rebuild and restore themselves remained undaunted, so I taught my clients powerful self-worth building tools I'd invented for myself in my mid-twenties.

I attribute my wisdom and skill to acute intuition, the courage to surmount serious life challenges, and my fierce, unrelenting commitment to personal growth, emotional vibrancy and overall wellness. Regrettably, my return to academia did not expand nor enhance these gains.

You may notice I've written a lot about Borderline Personality Disorder. My articles on this topic are an unintended consequence of working for over two decades with clients' key issues like poor self-worth, which contribute to and perpetuate all relationship difficulties. 

This website is NOT intended as a support resource for people struggling with BPD! If you have this disorder or suspect that you might, it's best that you redirect yourself to alternative web content that may feel more congruent with your own views and needs.

If you're trying to recover from a difficult relationship and you relate to my writings, it's thanks to the thousands who have bravely shared their painful stories with me. You're basically reading transcriptions of all those verbal accounts, and I hope they will bring you some relief, clarity and resolution.

If you wish to become a BPD Survivor Member, you'll be gaining unlimited access to my Borderline Personality Disorder materials, for which this site has gained worldwide recognition. Signing-up for a new membership is super-easy, on each BPD article page.

If you are a therapist trying to assist people with BPD traits in your practice, and you think you could benefit from a little help to work more effectively with these clients, just phone me, and let's discuss mentoring options.

The following links will expose you subjects that might be of special interest to you; Anxiety/Panic Disorders - Sex Addiction - Attention Deficit Disorders (ADD/ADHD) - Weight Loss - Passive-Aggression - Sexual Difficulties - Mid-life Struggles - Codependency and numerous other relationship issues.

If you'd prefer to listen to my materials and you own an iPhone, iPad or iPod, click here for the web-reader app that'll help you accomplish this. I believe you can find an android version of this type of software to download, if you do a little web research.

Selected letters I received over the course of many years are responded to in my Q&A Forums. My Articles may occasionally be revamped and expanded to keep that body of information fresh and vital. Please save this site to your *favorites* and feel free to visit as often as you like! 

Sorry, but I'm no longer replying to readers' email requests for guidance. My sincere apologies for any inconvenience or disappointment this may cause you! Please do not phone or write me requesting referrals to a professional who works as I did, before retiring from one-on-one consulting. I cannot help you with this, but I sincerely wish you every success in finding expert, meaningful guidance and support. 

If you feel this site's content has helped you, a donation button at the bottom of this page allows you to make a contribution, should you feel so inclined. Whatever you give helps me keep these materials accessible to you, and is deeply appreciated. Thank you!!! 

If you wish to reach me in reference to a speaking engagement, TV or radio broadcast, please leave your information in a voicemail with either of the numbers on my contact page, and you'll hear back from me very shortly. You'll be calling a landline. It is not able to receive nor send text messages.

Thanks for visiting my site and YouTube channel. Be sure and check my daily Facebook posts for more learning and growth opportunities! My most fervent hope is that you will gain something of real value through exposure to my spirit and essence within these venues.


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