am passionately dedicated to your empowerment,
expansion and success. I'm at heart, an educator~ so a lot of
the material you'll be reading on this site is very candid, straightforward
and controversial. My
hope is, you'll have an "Aha!"
experience while you're visiting, and gain some headway with the
challenges you've found to be most troubling.
perspectives and concepts you'll be exposed to on these web pages
are solely my own~ and are not to be
interpreted as being congruent with nor reflective of those promoted
and maintained by the psychotherapeutic or psychological community.
have not worked as a state licensed clinician, nor has
that been my intent or aim. To me, psychotherapy always seemed
too lengthy a process, so I conceived and developed radically
unique methods that can resolve human pain more quickly and permanently.
you might acquire worthy insights from my self-help articles,
my consulting work has never dealt with mental analysis of your
suffering. I've offered unconventional, comprehensive approaches
to rebuilding peoples' lives, by teaching them how to heal
and grow themselves. My methods have the potential
to positively transform you. Each highly specific, yet
simple tool is designed to eliminate obstacles that inhibit joy,
success and contentment, so you can construct the kind of life
you've always wanted.
new book, DO YOU LOVE TO BE NEEDED, OR NEED TO BE LOVED? details
how I helped my clients heal. You might think of it as
a primer on Codependency and the core trauma
wounds that drive our unending compulsions to place the needs
of others far ahead of our own. This addictive reflex prevents
us from forming nourishing, healthy, reciprocal attachment
bonds! You can order the softcover version on Amazon, or download
it as an e-book from your favorite online source.
I retired from my wellness practice in late 2017, but wanted to
keep helping people learn how to repair themselves. You'll
soon find Do-It-Yourself tutorials, which can improve your life
and end your pain. In the interim, I hope you'll view my online
videos, which offer life-altering tools and powerful strategies
that help you successfully navigate your daily existence, and
literally start healing.
background trivia: I returned to school at forty-one, and earned
a Bachelor's degree in Human Behavior Psychology and a Master
of Arts in Counseling Psych. I completed a six-year private practice
internship and sat for both my state board exams. I chose to surrender
my application for MFT licensure after a serious accident
in 2007 made it impossible to retake my second test. This incident
altered my career course~ but I remained dedicated to helping
people reconstruct themselves by sharing powerful self-worth building
tools I'd invented for myself in my mid-twenties.
attribute my wisdom and skill to substantial life experience,
acute intuition and a fierce, unrelenting commitment to personal
growth, emotional vibrancy and overall wellness. Regrettably,
my return to academia did not expand nor enhance these gains.
notice I've written a lot about Borderline
Personality Disorder. You might say, my BPD articles are an
unintended consequence of working for over two decades with clients'
key issues like poor self-worth, which contribute to and perpetuate
all relationship difficulties.
you're trying to recover from a difficult relationship and you
relate to my writings, it's thanks to the thousands who
have courageously shared their painful stories with me. You are
reading transcriptions of all those verbal accounts,
and I hope they will bring you some relief, clarity and resolution.
website is not intended as a support resource for people
struggling with BPD. If you have this disorder or suspect that
you might, it's best that you redirect yourself to alternative
web content that may feel more congruent with your own views and
The following links will take you subjects that might be of special
interest to you; Anxiety/Panic
Sex Addiction - Attention
Deficit Disorders (ADD/ADHD) - Weight
Loss - Passive-Aggression
- Sexual Difficulties
Struggles - Codependency
and numerous other relationship issues.
you'd prefer to listen to my materials and you own an
iPhone, iPad or iPod, click here
for the web-reader app that'll help you accomplish this. I believe
you can find an android verson of this type of software to download,
if you do a little web research.
letters I received over the course of many years have been responded
to within my Q&A Forums. My Articles
might occasionally be revamped and expanded to keep that information
fresh and vital. Save this site to your *favorites* and
feel free to visit as often as you like!
to the time constraints of publishing my books, I'm no longer
replying to readers' email requests for guidance. Sorry for
any inconvenience or disappointment this may cause you! Please
do not phone me asking for a referral to a professional who works
as I did before I retired from one-on-one work.
I cannot help you with this, but I wish you every success in finding
expert, meaningful assistance and support.
you wish to reach me in reference to a speaking engagement, TV
or radio broadcast, please leave your name and phone number on
either of my
voice-mails, and you'll hear back from me very shortly. Thank
you for visiting my site and my YouTube channel.
My most fervent hope is that you will gain something of real value
through exposure to my spirit and essence within these venues.
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